The Truth is

Many of you have children just as I do. All of my children are 18 and older. In this day and age, our children are not ๐Ÿšซ obeying us. They question you ask yourself daily is why?

Well, if you look back over your life. You will realize you did not ๐Ÿšซ obey your parents. Those of you whom are grow with both parents who try to guide you; yet you disobey them. Well, your children are doing the same thing you did.

You see, my daughter moved out because I told her she could not ๐Ÿšซ lay up in my house with a boy and she had to go to church. Yes this is the truth. But I moved out of my dad’s house because my grandmother was on her death bed. However, I left home when I did not ๐Ÿšซ have to and my daughter did the same thing but for a different reason.

I said that to say this. Stop ๐Ÿ›‘ believing everything you hear from angry and bitter ๐Ÿ™„ people and children. Stop ๐Ÿ›‘ trying to figure a person out from a blog post, Instagram post, Facebook post, Twitter and their podcast because you will still miss the most valuable asset about the individual. Until you spend quality time and be intimate with the person. All you will have is he say she say, and a bunch of small pieces of the person’s life which leads to a bunch of lies and assumptions. Stop ๐Ÿ›‘ assuming the worst about people from people that are bitter and angry ๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ’ข with themselves and the world. Stop ๐Ÿ›‘ it! You are missing out on healthy relationships believing the lies.

I hope this blessed someone because it definitely blessed me.

Published by Rosina Akinola

Supernatural Woman, Rosina Akinola is the founder of Save Our Families Incorporated non-profit organization for families who have lost loved ones due to violence. We are taking back our joy, by the Blood of Jesus. My oldest son Sidney Maurice Jackson Jr. was robbed and murdered on November 21, 2015. He was 19 years old, 6 months away for getting his Associates Degree in Business Management. He was also a new father, who was gunned down one day before his son Jaiden turned one month old November 22, 2015. Sidney was taken from us two days before my 37th birthday November 23rd. Sidney made one bad choice, which, cost him his life. I didnโ€™t find out until he was dead and gone. And by that time it was too late and I didnโ€™t want to hear it. Knoxville, Tennessee is a small city that is dying slowly. This city has lost so many young men and women due to senseless violence. There are so many families hurting as a whole. No one ever realizes that the mothers arenโ€™t the only ones hurting. The Fathers, siblings, cousins, aunts, uncles, grandparents and friends hurt as well. But, everyone grieves differently, because of their own personal relationship with the deceased loved one. But, most of all our youth hurt the most. They do not know how to handle grief at all. Weโ€™ve got to be more careful, when it comes to them. They will become severely depressed right in front of your eyes without you knowing it. How can I say this? Well, itโ€™s because it happened to me. I was so wrapped up in the loss of Sidney, two months to the date January 21, 2016 I almost lost my only daughter to suicide. I had to learn the hard way. Iโ€™m trying to prevent other families, from experiencing the same things my family has experienced. I want to be the voice for the mothers who are hurting too badly to SPEAK UP and SPEAK OUT. Iโ€™m trying to help families stay together and support each other. So, many families fall apart after the loss of a family member, especially a child. The Lord is my strengthโ€ฆ