High Maintenance

Posted byRosina AkinolaPosted inApostle, Prophet, Evangelists, Preacher, Teacher

Lol, Lord help me. Hello everyone, Iโ€™m sitting here watching The Talk on CBS and they are talking about SWAG.. lol

Anyway, I just had a flash back to when my former best friend from childhood, always would tell me, โ€œ Rosina, you are high maintenance and men are intimidated by you.โ€ I would respond asking her, โ€œ How am I high maintenance?โ€ She would say, โ€œ Because you keep you hair done, house clean and decorated, you dress nice, you take care of your children, you take care of yourself with or without a man, you donโ€™t depend on a man, you take care of your business no matter what, you are always helping others, you are nice but you donโ€™t take no mess of anybody.โ€ I literally would laugh and reply, โ€œIf Iโ€™m paying for what I like and not depending what on a man to do, that means I love myself and if he wants to pay for what I like ok, but if he doesnโ€™t I canโ€™t buy it myself. Thatโ€™s not high maintenance, that me being able to maintain if a man helps me or not.โ€

Moral of the story. Yes , I love a man to help me, but if he canโ€™t or want Iโ€™ll be able to maintain regardless. No, Iโ€™m not a gold digger like most women. Thy what makes me different. Yes, money matters. But money cannot buy your love or happiness. Money pays the bills and buy materialistic things. But money cannot and will not buy anything pertaining to love and happiness. This is why many relationships and marriages are failing on today.
You all have based your relationships and marriages off of traveling, cars, clothes, shoes, houses, wining and dining, posting everything to social media for other to be jealous. But yet you donโ€™t have God, love, intimacy, communication, understanding, happiness, peace, joy, confidence, trust or comfort. All because you are trying to please the world and your friends but neglecting your significant other. Your partner and helpmate .

Lord help your people understand!

Published by Rosina Akinola

Supernatural Woman, Rosina Akinola is the founder of Save Our Families Incorporated non-profit organization for families who have lost loved ones due to violence. We are taking back our joy, by the Blood of Jesus. My oldest son Sidney Maurice Jackson Jr. was robbed and murdered on November 21, 2015. He was 19 years old, 6 months away for getting his Associates Degree in Business Management. He was also a new father, who was gunned down one day before his son Jaiden turned one month old November 22, 2015. Sidney was taken from us two days before my 37th birthday November 23rd. Sidney made one bad choice, which, cost him his life. I didnโ€™t find out until he was dead and gone. And by that time it was too late and I didnโ€™t want to hear it. Knoxville, Tennessee is a small city that is dying slowly. This city has lost so many young men and women due to senseless violence. There are so many families hurting as a whole. No one ever realizes that the mothers arenโ€™t the only ones hurting. The Fathers, siblings, cousins, aunts, uncles, grandparents and friends hurt as well. But, everyone grieves differently, because of their own personal relationship with the deceased loved one. But, most of all our youth hurt the most. They do not know how to handle grief at all. Weโ€™ve got to be more careful, when it comes to them. They will become severely depressed right in front of your eyes without you knowing it. How can I say this? Well, itโ€™s because it happened to me. I was so wrapped up in the loss of Sidney, two months to the date January 21, 2016 I almost lost my only daughter to suicide. I had to learn the hard way. Iโ€™m trying to prevent other families, from experiencing the same things my family has experienced. I want to be the voice for the mothers who are hurting too badly to SPEAK UP and SPEAK OUT. Iโ€™m trying to help families stay together and support each other. So, many families fall apart after the loss of a family member, especially a child. The Lord is my strengthโ€ฆ