Agreement Matters! Equally Yoked just as it says in the Bible.

When the man God has truly chosen to be my husband proposes to me, he needs to know that premarital counseling is a must because whatever issues he has or I have can be dealt with before walking down the aisle.

I cannot be battle demons from his past and he cannot be battle demons from my past.

If he doesn’t agree with premarital counseling I guess we will not be getting married. And I am cool with that.

I refuse to be with anyone who doesn’t want to be completely honest with me before marriage. I refuse to accept a marriage proposal from a man who secretly has a sex addiction and then I be stupid enough to think that us getting married with stop him from desiring to have sex with multiple women just because he is now married to me. ( It’s truly not a secret because God shows you signs)

I am not going to fool myself that way. That would be insane for me as a woman to think I cannot change a man just because we are now married. We are getting to the root of our issues before marriage. And if something happens once we are now married and have gone before God and witnesses that is new we will be able to agree on what we should do next.

Because if we cannot agree before marriage, I know we will not agree during marriage because we both have a selfish pride issue.

Agreement Matters. Equally Yoked just as it says in the Bible.

Published by Rosina Akinola

Supernatural Woman, Rosina Akinola is the founder of Save Our Families Incorporated non-profit organization for families who have lost loved ones due to violence. We are taking back our joy, by the Blood of Jesus. My oldest son Sidney Maurice Jackson Jr. was robbed and murdered on November 21, 2015. He was 19 years old, 6 months away for getting his Associates Degree in Business Management. He was also a new father, who was gunned down one day before his son Jaiden turned one month old November 22, 2015. Sidney was taken from us two days before my 37th birthday November 23rd. Sidney made one bad choice, which, cost him his life. I didnโ€™t find out until he was dead and gone. And by that time it was too late and I didnโ€™t want to hear it. Knoxville, Tennessee is a small city that is dying slowly. This city has lost so many young men and women due to senseless violence. There are so many families hurting as a whole. No one ever realizes that the mothers arenโ€™t the only ones hurting. The Fathers, siblings, cousins, aunts, uncles, grandparents and friends hurt as well. But, everyone grieves differently, because of their own personal relationship with the deceased loved one. But, most of all our youth hurt the most. They do not know how to handle grief at all. Weโ€™ve got to be more careful, when it comes to them. They will become severely depressed right in front of your eyes without you knowing it. How can I say this? Well, itโ€™s because it happened to me. I was so wrapped up in the loss of Sidney, two months to the date January 21, 2016 I almost lost my only daughter to suicide. I had to learn the hard way. Iโ€™m trying to prevent other families, from experiencing the same things my family has experienced. I want to be the voice for the mothers who are hurting too badly to SPEAK UP and SPEAK OUT. Iโ€™m trying to help families stay together and support each other. So, many families fall apart after the loss of a family member, especially a child. The Lord is my strengthโ€ฆ