Looks are not everything

I’m truly amused by how good looking men and women, literally think that’s all that matters. But, the truth is this; I have dated an unattractive man who couldn’t have sex with me because he had been shot in his groin, at the time he was homeless, had no money and heavy set.ย  I loved him and he loved me. Why, did I love him? Well, it’s because he treated me like a queen and treated my children like they were his. I helped him get on his feet and he took good care of me and my three children, plus his daughter who lived in another state. Once, he got shot the woman he was in love with let him be the could no longer provide for her and their daughter. However, he and I were only put together by God so, I wouldn’t always be swayed by looks and money. I truly hope this helped someone. Because the moral.of the story is truly this. I will not marry looks and money. His heart made him handsome in my eyes. His physical appearance meant absolutely nothing to me. Sincerely, Rosina Akinola โค๏ธ

Published by Rosina Akinola

Supernatural Woman, Rosina Akinola is the founder of Save Our Families Incorporated non-profit organization for families who have lost loved ones due to violence. We are taking back our joy, by the Blood of Jesus. My oldest son Sidney Maurice Jackson Jr. was robbed and murdered on November 21, 2015. He was 19 years old, 6 months away for getting his Associates Degree in Business Management. He was also a new father, who was gunned down one day before his son Jaiden turned one month old November 22, 2015. Sidney was taken from us two days before my 37th birthday November 23rd. Sidney made one bad choice, which, cost him his life. I didnโ€™t find out until he was dead and gone. And by that time it was too late and I didnโ€™t want to hear it. Knoxville, Tennessee is a small city that is dying slowly. This city has lost so many young men and women due to senseless violence. There are so many families hurting as a whole. No one ever realizes that the mothers arenโ€™t the only ones hurting. The Fathers, siblings, cousins, aunts, uncles, grandparents and friends hurt as well. But, everyone grieves differently, because of their own personal relationship with the deceased loved one. But, most of all our youth hurt the most. They do not know how to handle grief at all. Weโ€™ve got to be more careful, when it comes to them. They will become severely depressed right in front of your eyes without you knowing it. How can I say this? Well, itโ€™s because it happened to me. I was so wrapped up in the loss of Sidney, two months to the date January 21, 2016 I almost lost my only daughter to suicide. I had to learn the hard way. Iโ€™m trying to prevent other families, from experiencing the same things my family has experienced. I want to be the voice for the mothers who are hurting too badly to SPEAK UP and SPEAK OUT. Iโ€™m trying to help families stay together and support each other. So, many families fall apart after the loss of a family member, especially a child. The Lord is my strengthโ€ฆ