Body Shame(Unashamed)

Good morning to all the beautiful women around the world. I hope all is well with and your families especially the beautiful mothers.

Please read this carefully moms……
I know culture, models, famous people who can afford a personal trainer along with plastics surgery may make you think you are not beautiful or desirable. However, that is a lie! The truth is this……. Anyone who has to have plastics surgery on any part of her body is miserable. We are to be happy in the skin we are in, especially your mothers who have carried a whole human being in your body one or more times. Do not be ashamed of your stretch marks or baby weight. Often times you find some men try to make you be their trophy. You are not a trophy you are a beautiful human being which happens to be a woman.

My beautiful sisters, please do not allow a man who is obviously insecure and unhappy try to turn you into his trophy to stroke his ego in public! If a man want to change you all the to the point of risking your life with you going under a knife to please his ego run away from him quickly! Ladies, a man who truly loves you, will love your mind, body and spirit. Stop settling for these egotistical men who have no common decency for human life or women. A man who loves you knows that any type of surgeon is life threatening. Love the skin you are in, especially of God has bless you to carry children. If you are a woman who has a thyroid problem understand you are beautiful.

I understand some women need weight loss surgery because of heart disease, I know a few women who had to do so. However, afterwards they gained the weight back because they could not control their eating habits. Which, means they went under the knife for nothing and their heart problems were worsened. So, understand that even weight loss surgery is a waste of time if you do not commit to lifestyle change. Not a diet but you choose to eat right for the rest of your life.

My beauty sisters love the skin you are in. I literally have been all sizes through my life thus far and I have never been ashamed. Some medicines will cause you to gain or lose weight. Some health conditions may cause you to gain or lose weight. Stress can cause you to gain or lose weight. My God depression can cause you to gain or lose weight. So, ladies love the skin you are in and find a man who will love you the same. Do not allow a man to belittle you or make you feel less than because he wants a trophy wife. You are the apple of God’s eyes and wonderfully and fearfully made.

To all the moms enjoy your Mother’s Day weekend.

Rosina Akinola

Published by Rosina Akinola

Supernatural Woman, Rosina Akinola is the founder of Save Our Families Incorporated non-profit organization for families who have lost loved ones due to violence. We are taking back our joy, by the Blood of Jesus. My oldest son Sidney Maurice Jackson Jr. was robbed and murdered on November 21, 2015. He was 19 years old, 6 months away for getting his Associates Degree in Business Management. He was also a new father, who was gunned down one day before his son Jaiden turned one month old November 22, 2015. Sidney was taken from us two days before my 37th birthday November 23rd. Sidney made one bad choice, which, cost him his life. I didn’t find out until he was dead and gone. And by that time it was too late and I didn’t want to hear it. Knoxville, Tennessee is a small city that is dying slowly. This city has lost so many young men and women due to senseless violence. There are so many families hurting as a whole. No one ever realizes that the mothers aren’t the only ones hurting. The Fathers, siblings, cousins, aunts, uncles, grandparents and friends hurt as well. But, everyone grieves differently, because of their own personal relationship with the deceased loved one. But, most of all our youth hurt the most. They do not know how to handle grief at all. We’ve got to be more careful, when it comes to them. They will become severely depressed right in front of your eyes without you knowing it. How can I say this? Well, it’s because it happened to me. I was so wrapped up in the loss of Sidney, two months to the date January 21, 2016 I almost lost my only daughter to suicide. I had to learn the hard way. I’m trying to prevent other families, from experiencing the same things my family has experienced. I want to be the voice for the mothers who are hurting too badly to SPEAK UP and SPEAK OUT. I’m trying to help families stay together and support each other. So, many families fall apart after the loss of a family member, especially a child. The Lord is my strength… View more posts

Share this:

Related

Published by Rosina Akinola

One thought on “Body Shame(Unashamed)”