A message for the divorcรฉe

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Good afternoon beautiful people!

I pray you are all enjoying your day thus far. This message is specific for the divorcee of the church of Jesus Christ. I am her to let you know that all of heaven has forgiven you as long as you have forgiven yourself and your ex-husband or ex-wife. Do not allow religion opinions of the church to condemn you to hell for getting a divorce.

Understand, I have never been married because I refused to settle. Coming up with a good father whom is also Nigerian; I learned I would not settle down in a arranged marriage. So, that also taught me not to settle down in a marriage because of children. I want to be married someday but not to just any ordinary man. He must be God fear in above all things(.)

Often times many people get married for the wrong reasons and God will allow you to do so. This does not mean it is His perfect will for your life but his permissive will and there is a difference. God allowed the divorce because you two were not equally yoked to begin with but goal oriented. He allowed the marriage because you thought that person was who you wanted and you were too impatient to wait on the husband or wife that he ordained for you. See, this is the problem with religion and not understanding the context of the Bible. Reading the Bible without the leading of the Holy Spirit is like reading any other book. And that is the problem.

So, please forgive yourself and the other person and go to the Lord in prayer and ask for forgiveness. Understand, that in the Bible God forgave Moses and David whom he used and they were both murderers. They both had sinned against God and there were constantly for their sin. However, God forgave them and he still used them. So, understand that just because you have been divorce for whatever reason; God can and will still use you. God will allow you to marry again, you are not a failure; you literally made a mistake out of impatience. Donโ€™t allow religious people to condemn you when God has forgiven you if you asked him to. If God can forgive a murderer for taking another life. He will forgive you for messing up and wasting your time and the other personโ€™s time. Move on and be healed. Forgive and you will be forgiven. Enjoy your day.

Rosina Akinola

Published by Rosina Akinola

Supernatural Woman, Rosina Akinola is the founder of Save Our Families Incorporated non-profit organization for families who have lost loved ones due to violence. We are taking back our joy, by the Blood of Jesus. My oldest son Sidney Maurice Jackson Jr. was robbed and murdered on November 21, 2015. He was 19 years old, 6 months away for getting his Associates Degree in Business Management. He was also a new father, who was gunned down one day before his son Jaiden turned one month old November 22, 2015. Sidney was taken from us two days before my 37th birthday November 23rd. Sidney made one bad choice, which, cost him his life. I didnโ€™t find out until he was dead and gone. And by that time it was too late and I didnโ€™t want to hear it. Knoxville, Tennessee is a small city that is dying slowly. This city has lost so many young men and women due to senseless violence. There are so many families hurting as a whole. No one ever realizes that the mothers arenโ€™t the only ones hurting. The Fathers, siblings, cousins, aunts, uncles, grandparents and friends hurt as well. But, everyone grieves differently, because of their own personal relationship with the deceased loved one. But, most of all our youth hurt the most. They do not know how to handle grief at all. Weโ€™ve got to be more careful, when it comes to them. They will become severely depressed right in front of your eyes without you knowing it. How can I say this? Well, itโ€™s because it happened to me. I was so wrapped up in the loss of Sidney, two months to the date January 21, 2016 I almost lost my only daughter to suicide. I had to learn the hard way. Iโ€™m trying to prevent other families, from experiencing the same things my family has experienced. I want to be the voice for the mothers who are hurting too badly to SPEAK UP and SPEAK OUT. Iโ€™m trying to help families stay together and support each other. So, many families fall apart after the loss of a family member, especially a child. The Lord is my strengthโ€ฆ